fixed some styling inconsistencies, removed show services toggle from affecting custom colors

frontend/src/components/modals/__tests__/NodeModal.test.tsx

@@ -299,6 +299,18 @@ describe('NodeModal', () => {
     expect(data.custom_colors?.show_services).toBe(true)
   })
 
+  it('keeps default colors hint visible when Show Services is toggled on', () => {
+    renderModal({ initial: BASE })
+    fireEvent.click(screen.getByRole('switch', { name: 'Show Services' }))
+    expect(screen.getByText(/Using default colors for/)).toBeDefined()
+  })
+
+  it('does not show Appearance reset when only Show Services is set', () => {
+    renderModal({ initial: BASE })
+    fireEvent.click(screen.getByRole('switch', { name: 'Show Services' }))
+    expect(screen.queryByText('Reset to defaults')).toBeNull()
+  })
+
   // ── Parent Proxmox (vm / lxc only) ───────────────────────────────────
 
   const parentContainerVisibleTypes = ['proxmox', 'vm', 'lxc', 'docker_host', 'isp', 'router', 'switch', 'server', 'nas', 'ap', 'printer', 'iot', 'camera', 'cpl', 'computer', 'generic'] as const